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Beneath a Borrowed sky

“Beneath a borrowed sky” released in June 2026 is a story about identity, travel, motherhood, empty nesting, and the art of letting go.

What if home isn’t a place, but something you learn to carry within you?

Sam Frearson-Tubito is a traveller. A global nomad. A third-culture kid. Raised across countries and cultures, she grew up between worlds – never fully rooted, yet shaped by every place she called home. And as she built a life of her own and raised her children across borders, she began to ask: where do we truly belong?

Beneath a Borrowed Sky weaves a deeply personal and multigenerational narrative of belonging, identity and the quiet, complex work of redefining home. Blending poignant childhood memories with the joys and complexities of motherhood, this powerful yet often humorous memoir is a story of transition and the generational echoes of a life lived across cultures. It is both intimate and universal – an exploration of what it means to find home, lose it, and redefine it again.  And at its heart is a key message: identity is shaped less by where you are from and more by who you are.

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What my readers think

A book that those who have grown up – or lived as adults – among many cultures will find emotionally moving and deeply thought-provoking.

Ruth E. Van Reken

Author of Letters Never Sent, co-author of Third Culture Kids – Growing Up Among Worlds, Co-founder of Families in Global Transition

Gives language to the gripping ache of global mobility, the beauty of reinvention, and the hope that we are not as unmoored as we sometimes fear.

Megan C. Norton-Newbanks

Author of Belonging Beyond Borders, Intercultural Trainer and TCK consultant/advocate/mentor

A courageous, beautifully wrought account of what it means to search for home.

Mariam Navaid Ottimofiore

Author of This Messy Mobile Life and The Guilty Can’t Say Goodbye

“A poignant exploration of belonging.”

Ruth E. Van Reken

Author of Letters Never Sent, co-author of Third Culture Kids – Growing Up Among Worlds, Co-founder of Families in Global Transition

A book for anyone who has ever suffered the ambiguous grief that comes with simultaneously belonging nowhere… and everywhere.

Kristin Louise Duncombe

Author of Trailing: A memoir, Five Flights Up and Object: A memoir

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